Try to meet men in other places than bars - like on courses, at picture galleries, even in the supermarket. Have you tried online dating for instance? Try Soulmates from the Guardian, Mysinglefriend.com for introductions from people you already know, Match.com for plenty of choice - or a dating site that specialises in a group you belong to, like a particular university or college: Here are the golden rules for successful online dating.
1 Don't email for too long without meeting. You can feel you know someone very well and then get a shock when you meet them. A week is plenty of time to set up a meeting.
2 Do have your first 'date' in the daytime, and make sure it doesn't involve alcohol. An hour over coffee is enough to tell whether you want to take it further.
3 Do observe all the safety rules. Don't go to his house or get into his car. Always make sure your friends know exactly where you are. Make sure you meet in a very public place. Leave if you are not comfortable.
4 Be realistic. Don't expect true love and wedding bells. Do expect a few fun dates.
5 Anything else is a lovely bonus.
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Saturday, June 21, 2008
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